How a Cell Phone Can Ruin Your Affair

There is nothing more devastating to an affair than the cell phone.

If you do only one thing to try to hide your affair, make it this: DON’T USE YOUR CELL PHONE to communicate with your beau.

I know it’s easy to just pick up the phone and call to make arrangements. Maybe you send a quick text message to let him know that you’re waiting. Or, you have him call your cell so that you don’t risk your co-workers, kids or husband answering the phone when he calls.

But know this – each and every time you call his cell, or he calls yours it creates evidence that can be used against you.

Your cell phone bill shows up in your mailbox every month AND in most cases, it can be accessed online. Your husband can easily get a copy of your phone bill to start tracking your every movement.

He can see when you make your regular calls to friends and family – you probably have a few that you call once a week or every day.

He can also see:

• The exact dates and times that you received texts from your beau’s number. Were those the days that you told him you needed to “run to your sister’s house” for a few hours?
• When you don’t make calls for a long period of time. Where were you during that time?
• Where your roaming calls came from. You said you were at a conference in New York, why are there calls on your bill originating from Chicago that weekend?

Not only that – but, what do you think his wife will do when she sees YOUR number showing up on her husband’s bill each month?

So, use other methods of communicating with your beau that won’t create a hard evidence trail that practically tells the story of your affair. Some alternatives are:

• Free, web-based email (don’t use your real names!)
• Office phones
• In person only! Set regular meeting times and do your communicating in person.